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- August 6, 2025
August 6, 2025

Good morning! Your mom just undermined your bedtime routine (again), you stress-ate half a bag of chips last night, and TSA still hasn't figured out that traveling with kids is basically a contact sport.
Quick heads up: This newsletter is taking a brief break after today until September 2nd while I (Annalee 👋) welcome a new baby and we all reset going into the school year.
TL;DR: Generational peace treaties, emotional eating detox, shrimp salad magic, and striped decor that's actually timeless. Let's dive in. ⬇️
AROUND THE WEB
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📚 Your kid's about to have an emotional meltdown on the first day of school, but these expert tricks will save both your sanity.
🥤 Coke is ditching corn syrup for real sugar again, and the taste test results will shock you.
🎧 Time just ranked the 100 best podcasts ever made, and your current favorites probably didn't make the cut.
📝 These 5 legal forms could save your college kid's life (and your bank account) when crisis strikes.
🦟 This $2 pantry staple kills mosquitoes instantly, and you've been ignoring it this whole time.
🧠 The viral TikTok trend that's rewiring people's fried attention spans actually works, and the science is wild.
FAMILY

Grandma goes rogue.
Your mom just gave your toddler a cookie after dinner, completely ignoring your "no sugar after 6pm" rule. Sound familiar? You're not alone in this generational tug-of-war.
What's really happening: It's not that grandparents are trying to sabotage your parenting (usually). They're operating from a completely different playbook. In the 80s, "good kids" were quiet and obedient. Today's parents focus on emotional regulation and trauma-informed approaches. Different eras, different nervous systems.
The top flashpoints:
Unsolicited parenting advice that feels more like judgment
Screen time boundaries (hello, surprise Peppa Pig during cleanup)
Bedtime routines that seem "too rigid" to grandparents
Discipline styles: tough love vs. gentle parenting
Your survival guide:
Get proactive. Don't wait for the meltdown. Before weekend visits, share your routine in writing. Yes, it feels extra, but it works.
Assume good intentions. That cookie wasn't an act of rebellion. Grandparents are helping the best way they know how.
Pick your battles. Decide which rules are non-negotiable and which ones you can flex on during grandparent time.
Lead with love language. Try: "We've noticed sugar after dinner makes bedtime tough. Could you help us save treats for earlier?" Instead of: "Stop giving my kid cookies."
Praise the effort. A simple "you're doing great with her" can defuse tension faster than any heated discussion about sleep schedules.
Bottom line: This isn't about winning. It's about creating space for different generations to love your kids in their own way while respecting your boundaries. Everyone wants what's best for your little ones, even when it doesn't feel that way.
WELLNESS

Stress snacking strikes again.
It's 9pm, you've had a brutal day, and suddenly you're elbow-deep in a bag of chips while binge-watching Netflix. Welcome to emotional eating, where food becomes your therapist.
What's really happening: About 1 in 5 adults regularly eat their feelings, according to recent surveys. Unlike physical hunger (which builds gradually), emotional hunger hits like a freight train and demands immediate satisfaction. Usually in the form of something crunchy, sweet, or both.
The telltale signs:
Eating when you're upset or stressed (not hungry)
Speed-eating like you're in a race
Guilt spiraling after you've eaten
Craving specific comfort foods
Feeling powerless around certain snacks
The vicious cycle: Here's the kicker. Emotional eating actually rewires your brain's reward pathways, making it harder to recognize when you're truly hungry or full. Plus, those feelings that triggered the eating? Still there. Now with added guilt.
Keep a food and mood diary. Track what you eat and how you're feeling. Patterns will emerge faster than you think.
Find your feeling alternatives. Anxious? Dance it out to your favorite song. Lonely? Call that friend who always makes you laugh. Bored? Pick up that book you've been meaning to read.
Practice the 5-minute rule. When cravings hit, pause and check in with yourself. Ask: "Am I actually hungry, or am I trying to feed a feeling?"
Prep your environment. Stock cut veggies instead of cookies. If you're going to stress eat, might as well get some nutrients.
Bottom line: Food can't fix emotional problems, but recognizing the pattern is half the battle. Your feelings are valid, but your stomach isn't their therapist.
TRENDING
![]() | The pattern your grandma loved is suddenly everywhere again, and this time it's actually cool. Thanks to the fisherman aesthetic takeover and "pattern drenching" trend, stripes have gone from basic to brilliant across every major home decor brand. The best part? Unlike that trendy chevron phase we'd all rather forget, stripes actually work with any aesthetic and won't look dated in five years. Shop the chicest striped finds before everyone catches on. |
SNIPPETS
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This Shrimp Avocado Salad will make you forget those boring desk lunches exist — and the zesty lime-cilantro dressing? Pure summer perfection. The secret? It works double duty as a fresh salad or loaded into warm tortillas for instant tacos. Plus, it's ready in minutes, meal-prep friendly, and naturally packed with protein and healthy fats. Your taste buds (and your busy schedule) will thank you.



✨ Annalee and Karin ✨
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